Lots of Western men opt for dating a Filipina girl. And many of them end up in marrying a Filipino girl.  So, what makes the Filipina girls so sought-after-for among the western men, especially American men?

1. Filipina women are famous for their magnetic beauty

Filipinas are well known for their feminine disposition, and magical charm among other Asian women.

2. Filipina women are clam, understanding and patient

Most Filipinas would never involve in a loud argument or fight just because of the way they are brought up as a true Filipina Lady, who speaks politely. This quiet, soft spoken, and caring nature of the Filipino women separates them from the western women.

3. Filipina girls are well educated

The Philippines gives great importance to higher education. Unlike other Asian countries where women tend to be in more subservient positions, the Philippines give more importance to girl’s education. This affects their social behavior too.

4. Filipina women are good home keepers

Filipina women understand their domestic responsibility. For them, their home is the source of their pride. They always try to maintain a loving and warm surroundings  for their family members. For a Filipina, yelling at home is shameful act, as it would mean they cause disgrace to their home. Thus, you will never see a Filipina screaming, throwing dishes or fighting at top of her voice.

5. Filipinas are kindhearted, supportive, and caring

The loving, caring nature of Filipina woman is noticeable.  You will never see any successful businesses for orphanages or retirement homes in the Philippines.  Filipinas will never desert a child or a family member who is in need.

6. Filipinas always give priority to family

It is the tradition of their society, to give first priority to their family and family members.  And for a Filipina, family is the topmost priority.  They are more willing to sacrifice career for their family. Many people treat Filipino women, as if they are coming from a small and poor country, but for Filipinas the real wealth is in close bonds between family members.

The Filipinos are mostly Roman Catholic.  It is very common among their families to send their children regularly in the church.   It is not a surprise if you found that your Filipina is more dedicated to God.

7. Filipina girls believe in life long relationship

As there is no concept of divorce in the Philippines,  Filipina girls are brought up in a high respect for the sacredness of marriage and view it as a life-long commitment with their partner. Many people, who have married Filipina girls, swear that they are among the best wives –faithful, loving and loyal.

8. Success of American-Filipina marriages higher than American marriages

As per the recent statistics, American-Filipina marriages fixed through dating sites have a divorce ratio of about 20% compared to about 45% in the American marriages.

Though I may have generalized some of the facts, nevertheless, they should answer some of your questions as to why western men prefer a Filipina for dating and marriage.  If you also decide to date a Filipina girl, I wish you good luck.  Hope you may also find a girl you’ve been dreaming for!

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Tips for Dating Filipinas

If you are traveling in Philippines on a vacation, even though you may not have any online Filipina dating partner, there are good chances that you will find lovely Filipina girls for dating if you stroll around in malls, Internet cafes, discos and fast food joints.  Girls are everywhere looking for attention and if you treat them with the right attitude, you can easily find yourself on a date with a Filipina girl the next day. However, you should follow some basic dating etiquette, if you really want to be successful with the girl and win her heart.

If dating is a game, then just like any other game, there are rules you need to follow.  But, your bad dating behavior can cure with some common sense advice.  Here are some tips for dating Filipina women.

Do’s- dating rules:

1. Do wear a decent dress and try to look good and be on time.  If you go late and look messy, then it gives impression to your Filipina date that you don’t care for her.
2. Women put a lot of effort to getting ready for a date, so compliment your date on how she looks.
3. Try to enjoy yourself on dates.  And always keep in mind that this is supposed to be fun.
4. Be interested and interesting. Share thoughts, ask questions, and please pay attention when your Filipina date is telling you what she likes to do, listen, read, and watch.
5.  Date only girl you’re attracted to.  If you force yourself to go on a date with anybody just for the heck of it, the girl can easily sense your feelings.
6. Dating requires action, try to understand the family background of your Filipina date, and take interest in her family.  That’s a big factor for her to open more, and if everything goes right, she would invite you to meet her family the next day.

Don’ts – Dating rules:

1. Don’t lie to your Filipina date.
2. Don’t be late for a date. Always be there at time. If you have to change your plans, then tell your date about the changes. And always apologize.
3. Many of us are attracted to people who are bad for us.  So, don’t date the kind of girls who’ve hurt you in the past.
4. Don’t get drunk or be rude on a date.  Show some courtesy to a Filipina girl you are dating.
5. First dates should take place in well-lit public places.  It makes the girl feel safe and comfortable.
6. Don’t give out personal information like your address or phone number on the first date.  Keep these details to yourself until you trust the girl you’re dating.
7. Don’t date a married Filipina woman.  Would you like to go for a woman who is cheating on her husband?

A mature dating relationship with a Filipina girl is all about sharing your thought and feelings with your Filipina date.  In other words, you have to maintain a good level of friendship and communication for expressing whatever is going within your heart. If you wish to know more secrets about finding and dating lovely Filipina girls, check the following ebook Filipina 101.

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Dating Phrases in Tagalog Language

Mahal Kita is a tagalog phrase usally spoken among lovers.   Mahal  means ‘love’ and kita is a reflexive pronoun meaning ‘you’ . So this important phrase just means ‘I love you’, and you have to remember it if you are dating a Filipina woman.

Having a long distance relationship with a lovely Filipina girl is surely romantic and beautiful in it’s way.  But, eventually you want to meet her for real, right? The best way to take your relationship with your Filipina dating partner to the next level,  is to come and actually visit Philippines.  Take that vacation you’ve been saving for and just buy the ticket.

Though English is widely spoken in Philippines, if you wish to get a true first hand experience of Filipino culture, and also want to impress your Filipina heart, you should learn a little Tagalog – the national language of Philippines.  If you are dating a Filipina, you must learn her language.  If you are not fluent, that’s not a big problem, just try to master some important Tagalog dating phrases. They will be useful to you in those special moments!

Here are some Tagalog dating phrases for you to learn:

Maganda ka – You are beautiful
Maganda ang boses mo – You have a nice voice
Napakaganda ng ngiti mo – You have a beautiful smile
Gusto kita – I like you
Ingat ka – Take care of yourself
Iniisip kita palagi – I think of you all the day
Miss na miss kita – I am missing you very much
May gusto ako sa iyo – I have a crush on you
Iniibig kita – I am in love you
Mahal kita – I love you
Gusto kitang maging nobya ko – Will you be my girlfriend
Mahal na mahal kita – I love you very much
Nasa panaginip kita – I dream about you
Ano ang gusto mo? – What do you like?
Ano ang paborito mong pagkain? – What is your favorite food?
Saan mo gustong pumunta – Where do you want to go?
Ano ang gusto mong inumin? – What are your favorite drinks?
Pakasalan mo ako – Marry me
Pakakasalan mo ba ako? – Will you marry me?
Gusto kitang pakasalan – I want to marry you
Gusto kitang maging asawa ko – I want you as my wife
Ikaw lang ang mahal ko – I love only you and no one else

And, here are some basic everyday greetings in Tagalog language:

Magandang pagbyahe – Happy trip
Magandang umaga – Good morning
Magandang tanghali – Good noon
Magandang hapon – Good afternoon
Magandang gabi – Good evening

In future, when you get a chance to meet any Filipina or have a chat with her online or on the phone, memorize these phrases and use them to win your Filipina heart. She will be really very happy and impressed about the fact that you took the efforts to learn Tagalog language for her.

Feel free to use these phrases in Tagalog to any Filipina woman you are dating. Every Filipina girl, whether she lives in a city like Manila or a province in Cebu will surely appreciate your efforts and dedication.  Good luck in your search for your dream Filipina girl – who will whisper the magic words  – Mahal Kita - in your ears!

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